The Responsibility Process

• First: What is a difficult or troubling situation in your life?
• Second: What payoffs or benefits do you get for keeping it like it is?
• Third: What cost do you pay for keeping it like it is?
• Fourth: How do you create, promote, or allow it to be the way it is?
• Fifth: What do you pretend not to know?
• Sixth: What do you want?
• Seventh: What actions can you take/requests can you make to get this done?
• Eighth: When will you do this?

There are some days that I expend all my energy not answering these questions.